SuperBee Do something good for someone else 
When you're confused over important decisions, worried about their impact on your life, it's natural to deliberate, analyze, worry, fret & stress. The trick is to resist the urge to anguish over yourself! Today go do something good for someone else. Invest some time helping others with their problems. When you get out of your own way, solutions will come to you when you least expect them.
ah Narelle you can be very wise at times. This is great adavice